Email is where a surprising amount of the working day disappears: rewording a tricky reply, chasing someone politely for the third time, or working out what a 40-message thread actually decided. AI is very good at all of this, and you don’t need special software to start.
This guide gives you a simple routine and a set of prompts you can reuse every day.
Quick answer: Tell the AI who the email is for, what you want to happen and the tone you need, plus any key facts in bullet points. Ask for a short draft, then edit it. Use AI to summarise long threads and soften or sharpen tone, but always check names, dates and commitments before sending.
What you’ll need
- An AI assistant: ChatGPT, Claude, Grok, or the built-in tools in your inbox (Gemini in Gmail, Copilot in Outlook)
- The email or thread you’re replying to
- Your key points in rough bullet form
- Your company’s policy on using AI tools with work data
Step-by-step: write better emails with AI
- Check what you’re allowed to share. Many employers have rules on which AI tools can be used with company information. Use approved tools, and don’t paste confidential client data into personal accounts.
- Start with your goal. Before writing, decide in one sentence what you want the reader to do: approve, reply by Friday, attend a meeting. AI writes much better emails when it knows the goal.
- Dump your points. Write rough bullets. Grammar doesn’t matter. Then use prompt 1 to turn them into a clear email.
- Set the tone. Ask for “friendly but firm”, “formal”, or “short and warm”. If a draft feels too stiff, ask it to “make this sound more natural and less formal”.
- Summarise long threads. Paste a thread and ask for decisions, open questions and who is waiting on whom (prompt 3).
- Edit and personalise. Add a personal line where it matters, cut anything you wouldn’t say, and make sure the subject line is specific.
- Save your best prompts. Keep a note of the prompts that work, or turn your common emails into templates.
Copy-paste prompts
1. Bullets to email
Write a professional email to [RECIPIENT / ROLE]. Goal: [WHAT I WANT THEM TO DO]. Key points: - [POINT] - [POINT] Tone: [E.G. FRIENDLY BUT DIRECT]. British English. Under [NUMBER] words. Suggest a clear, specific subject line. Don't add facts I haven't given you.
2. Polite follow-up or chaser
I sent this email on [DATE] and haven't had a reply: [PASTE]. Write a short, polite follow-up that restates what I need and a deadline of [DATE], without sounding passive-aggressive. Give me two versions: gentle and firmer.
3. Summarise a long thread
Summarise this email thread in under 150 words: [PASTE THREAD]. Use these headings: Decisions made / Open questions / Actions (who, what, by when) / What I need to reply to.
4. Say no nicely
Help me decline this request politely but clearly: [PASTE REQUEST]. Reason: [YOUR REASON]. Offer an alternative if possible: [ALTERNATIVE OR "NONE"]. Keep it short and keep the relationship positive.
Recommended tools
- Microsoft Copilot in Outlook: draft, reply and summarise inside Outlook (with a Microsoft 365 Copilot licence).
- Gemini in Gmail: “Help me write” and thread summaries in Google Workspace.
- ChatGPT: versatile for any email client.
- Claude: excellent at tone and diplomacy.
- Grammarly: tone and clarity checks as you type.
Tips and mistakes to avoid
- Shorter is better. Ask for a word limit. AI drafts tend to be wordy.
- Watch the commitments. AI may add “I’ll have this to you by Monday” without being asked. Remove anything you didn’t agree to.
- Avoid over-politeness. Three “I hope this finds you well”-style lines in a row read as robotic.
- Don’t use AI for very sensitive emails without thought. Condolences, disciplinary matters or apologies deserve your own words, though AI can help you check the tone.
- Double-check names and dates. Mistakes here are embarrassing and easy to avoid.
FAQ
Is it unprofessional to use AI to write emails?
No. Using AI to draft and polish is increasingly normal. What matters is that the email is accurate, appropriate and sounds like you.
Can I use ChatGPT for work emails?
Check your employer’s policy first. Many organisations allow approved tools or business versions with stronger data protections and ban personal accounts for confidential information.
How do I stop AI emails sounding robotic?
Give it an example of your own writing, ask for plain language and short sentences, and edit the opening and closing lines yourself.
Try it yourself with Microsoft Copilot
Write a professional email to [RECIPIENT / ROLE]. Goal: [WHAT I WANT THEM TO DO]. Key points: - [POINT] - [POINT] Tone: [E.G. FRIENDLY BUT DIRECT]. British English. Under [NUMBER] words. Suggest a clear, specific subject line. Don't add facts I haven't given you.
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Reference: Microsoft Support: Draft an email with Copilot in Outlook